Tuesday, January 12, 2010

TO THE BLOG POLICE: (apparently they are patrolling)

We all have times in our lives that we aren't getting along with our husbands or friends or family, right? Does that mean that we have to blog about it? Maybe? Maybe not? I don't always blog about my disagreements. Does this mean that I am claiming to have the perfect life, husband, kids or family? I guess if you wan to think that you can. I simply choose not to tell the whole blogging community that I had a huge fight with my husband or whatever the issue may be. On a previous post for our first anniversary I wrote that I love my husband (gasp!) Also, apparently on my blog somewhere I have that Justin makes me laugh everyday and that I love to spend time with my family. (double gasp!) Just to clarify, for those who take it so literal. Maybe he doesn't make me laugh everyday? Sometimes we have bad days or bad weeks, there may be days that I don't even smile I am so upset. But do I still love him? Yes! I do still love him all the time disagreements or not. Is it really your right to judge if it is false or not? I think not. This is my Blog, feel free to read and comment but please don't judge on if I have blogged enough about all the disagreements I may have with Justin, my family, or dentist or work, or church calling or my neighbors dog or the clerk at the grocery store. Hopefully now the Blog police can get some rest at night knowing that someone they hardly know doesn't have a perfect life and doesn't claim to! We have disagreements and even arguments I may not understand him all the time...but I do LOVE him!

9 comments:

Amy said...

Very well said. It is amazing to me the opinions that people gather just simply by our blogs. And better yet that they think they have any right to have an opinion on our lives. This post was perfect! Shame on you for sharing your joys and your beautiful life ;) Love you!

Laurie said...

Why I don't like facebook for adults.... and consider invitation only blogging.... ANYONE can get into your life, friend or foe.....
FRIENDS know what they need to, that wich others don't need too.
So, Here's to looking at the bright side :)
Love you little sister :)

Erica Rogers said...

Oh my! I have had the same problems with certain people. There will always be someone who is jealous of you and what you have. Your true friends are the ones that are happy for you and love reading your blog and hearing how happy you are. Being happy and in love doesn't mean that your life is perfect and that you don't have problems--you are human, but only someone that is jealous would try to point that out to you! Love you!

Amy said...

Isn't it crazy how random people think they need to comment on YOUR blog. It is SO irritating, and isn't it nice to have a place to reflect and remember just how great your life is and how blessed you are.

Nathan and Nicki Griffiths said...

You go girl!

Laurie said...

I love you Nat! This is so funny! I definatly agree, dwell on the GOOD it's your buisiness what you choose to put on your blog! Like Max always says "bug off and beat it" from Lauren!!!

Brianna said...

Well said! I totally agree with you. I hate it when people assume just because I don't post about the negative stuff, it means that our life is full of perfection.

Unknown said...

I love this!! Thanks for posting, it is so well said!!

Thompson said...

Good for you, I want to say that i am a firm believer on attitude and if you focus only on the negative, fights and hard times that is all you will see. so focus on the happy, joyful and loving good times and that is what you will get an look forward too. keep it up.